Avoid the Money Trap – Video 1 of 3 Tips for Happy Holidays

Happy Holiday Tip #1
Avoid spending what you do not have.
Get creative and have fun doing something different.
Give yourself the gift of de-stressing your holiday by creating a gift budget and sticking to it.
Stay happy before, during and after the holidays!

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Are You Asking Yourself the Tough Questions about Love?

Love and menopause are rarely used in the same sentence. Much like comfort and change. I am writing this post for you ladies who are having your menopause emotional challenges. I am sharing an interview about asking yourself the tough “LOVE” questions with the hopes that understand that you choose “to be loving” during this time of change. Everyone wins when you do!

A few years ago, while watching the Today Show, I listened to Meredith Viera interview Jennifer Lopez about her soon-to-be released album called “Love?“.  Asked about the title of her album and the question mark, Jennifer Lopez said that it came from “being in such a good place” and “always questioning yourself when it comes to happiness.”  She went on to say that after giving birth to her twins, she felt “a deeper love” and started questioning things….Am I loving in the right way? Am I being loved in the right way?  You still have questions; there’s still so much to learn. Love is the answer but it’s also a question.”

Jennifer has been voted the most beautiful woman in the world and you can see why.  She does not only work at keeping her outside looking fabulous, she also works on her spiritual self, too.  She understands that happiness is an inside job.  She is also brave enough to ask herself the tough questions.

Are you brave enough to ask yourself those tough questions about love?  Allowing yourself to get to your love truth can be quite freeing.  Sometimes we are just not aware that we have closed off love to a friend, family member or to ourselves.  There are many reasons we close off love- when we want to change someone or ourselves, when we are listening to our “liar” ego mind, when we are not forgiving ourselves or others- just to name a few. Asking yourself a few key questions can allow you to see if you are in the loving, connecting flow or stuck in being right and cut off! Remember every decision we make takes us to love or away from love and everyone is seeking love. When one is loving everyone wins!

I challenge you to take a few minutes in the evening and ask yourself these love questions and evaluate your loving for that day.  If you do not like what you have done or you can see where you can be more loving, set an intention for the next day which will allow you to love more. See if you do a better job at choosing love the next day. There are a plethora of ways to love- being accepting, being grateful, acts of kindness, smiling, listening, and sharing are a good start.

Remember when you are not loving, it is like you are taking the poison expecting some else to die!  Stress is caused by closing off our love and listening to our Ego mind.  Give yourself a gift.  Allow yourself to have less stress in your life.  Start loving and start flowing and connecting to peace and happiness.

Love Questions for the End of the Day

Was I loving in the right way today?
Was I loving myself in the right way today?
Was I being loved in the right way today?
Was I forgiving myself and others today?
Did I choose to be grateful today?
Did I choose to accept a difficult person or situation today?

Here are just a few, feel free to add more. After a week or so, I am sure you will feel more loving and connected.  You will also be experiencing much more happiness and peace in your life in your second adulthood.

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Vicki Kallman is the co-founder of Queen Bee Biz. As a life coach and emotional releasing expert, she along with her business partner, Cheri Hickman, support women over 40 to Bee Happy before during and after menopause.  They take you from Grumpy to Happy in 60 seconds! Click here for  24/7 happiness.

2 Tips to Survive the Empty Nest Syndrome!

Two “Empty Nest “Survival Tips

1) Make your happiness a priority in your life.

2) Accept your life is changing and allow it to change for the better!

 

Life after your kids fly off can be so rewarding! Let Cheri and I support you in finding your joy before, during and after “The Change”- you know those menopausal years. We have been there and done that. We know the quickest way to fulfillment and happiness during your second adulthood! Contact us today! info@queenbeebiz.com

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Vicki Kallman is the co-founder of Queen Bee Biz.  As a life coach and emotional releasing expert, she along with her business partner, Cheri Hickman, support women over 40 to Bee Happy before during and after menopause.  They take you from Grumpy to Happy in 60 seconds! Click here for  24/7 happiness. 

Get The Feeling!

How to be happy when you don’t feel like it..

How great would it be to have a happy high when you first wake up? I mean a natural high. A high that comes from within. What do you think your day would be like if you had this high every day?

It is quite simple. You can create your own high within yourself with one very simple exercise. Your days will flow easily and gracefully. You will be more productive. You will feel good!

I never use to notice how I felt at any time during the day. I just reacted to whatever was taking place around me. I was on automatic when I woke up in the mornings. I was probably on automatic most of the day. I was not particularly a happy person. I was, in most part, a pleasant person. I did let my surroundings rule my feelings though.

How does it feel to you when you are around happy people? Do you feel happier? If you are in an environment where everyone is smiling and pleasant, do you feel like smiling and being pleasant? That is the way it usually works. Their energy is able to help you get the same feeling. Which also means that if they are grumpy, you might get grumpy too.

How do you get the feeling of a happy high? When you wake up, before you even get out of bed or when you are standing in front of a mirror, put a smile on your face and think of an event, a person, or something where you were feeling extremely happy. Anything where you experienced love and happiness. Notice how you feel and where you feel it in your body. Hold onto that feeling for about 68 seconds or so. Pay attention to your body and allow it to stay in that feeling.

Throughout the day, keep going back to that feeling and be grateful for the feeling. Be grateful for anything and everything around you. I can guarantee your day will be much more pleasant, productive, and satisfying.

ENJOY!

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Cheri Hickman is the co-founder of Queen Bee Biz.  As a life coach and emotional releasing expert, she along with her business partner, Vicki Kallman, support women over 40 to Bee Happy before during and after menopause.  They take you from Grumpy to Happy in 60 seconds! Click here for  24/7 happiness.

Your Reason For Existence Needs No Justification

One way to get through all the menopause emotions is to focus on what brings you happiness. Your hormones are running wild, which means this might be easier said than done. That is why we have guided, online courses to support you in focusing on what you want and to quite the Bitch, so you can be the Queen you deserve to be.

“Your reason for existence needs no justification, for your existence is justification enough.  You are a creator and the subject of your creation is your joyful life experience.  That is your mission. That is your quest.  That is why you are here.”  –          Abraham-Hicks

When you feel or “Be”, then you “Do”, you will “Have”

I love this quote.  It says it all!  We need no justification.  Many of us spend an unnecessary amount of time searching for our purpose.   Looking for the reason we are here.  Wondering what it is that we should be doing with our lives.

All that we really need to do is whatever makes us happy.  Whatever we want to experience at any particular time.  Whatever makes us happy will lead us to what we are here for.  Doing what is joyous puts us in alignment with who we really are.  Being in alignment allows us to allow all the good things in.

You are the creator.  If you have the desire, you have the ability to achieve it.  Expect opportunities to come your way.  You don’t need to have the capability, skills or intelligence.  Those will show up.  Be grateful for what you have at this moment and you will find that new experiences arise over and over again – joyful experiences.

This sounds extremely simple.  Practice looking at everything in your life that makes you happy.  Focus on the good and not the bad.  By focusing on the good you will change what is happening in your life.  By focusing on being happy, you will have new, joyous experiences.

I was reading a blog from a friend of mine (www.vickikallman.com) and it struck a cord!  She suggested we determine how we need to BE to get what we desire out of life.  For instance, I need to be courageous, creative, trusting, and loving to get what I desire.  I have started focusing on the way to BE so that I can HAVE my goals.  It does make a difference.   I can FEEL the difference.  Try it, you might like it!

The more you are BEING, the more you will HAVE.

Let us help you through this Menopause Mess.  Go to our Joy Store now and see what feels good to you. Your Reason For Existence Needs No Justification!

Enjoy!

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Cheri Hickman is the co-founder of Queen Bee Biz.  As a life coach and emotional releasing expert, she along with her business partner, Vicki Kallman, support women over 40 to Bee Happy before during and after menopause.  They take you from Grumpy to Happy in 60 seconds! Click here for  24/7 happiness.

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